“Slow” is a Lithuanian film that was submitted for the International Feature Film category at the Oscars this year. It’s not your typical romantic drama, as it sidesteps the usual clichés. The movie, directed by Marisa Kavtaradze, focuses more on genuine emotions and real-life challenges rather than predictable plot twists, making it a standout romantic drama.
Initial Meeting and Connection
The story begins with Elena, a contemporary dance instructor played by Greta Grineviciute, who is about to start a dance class for Deaf children. She meets Dovydas, played by Kestutis Cicenas, who is there to help communicate with the children using sign language. Right from their first meeting, there’s a clear connection between them. They quickly find common ground through their roles, which both rely heavily on body language, and their interest in each other grows.
Unexpected Revelation
Just as their relationship seems to be heading to a more intimate level, Dovydas reveals that he is asexual. This news initially confuses Elena, who fears that Dovydas does not find her attractive. However, Dovydas explains that his feelings for her are real and that he disclosed his asexuality not to push her away but to be honest about his limitations in their relationship. This sets the stage for both to explore a middle ground between friendship and a romantic relationship, challenging each to step out of their comfort zones.
A Film for the Patient Viewer
“Slow” is deliberately paced and focuses on emotional depth, which might not appeal to all audiences. Some may find its ending unsatisfying, but for those open to a more contemplative, the film offers a rich, rewarding experience. Both lead actors deliver compelling performances that add depth to their characters’ emotional journeys.
“Slow” invites viewers who are willing to engage with its thoughtful narrative to discover something truly special beyond conventional romantic storytelling.
